(sigh)

by Nikki on April 24, 2012

wonky shirt

oh hell

Notice anything a little off about the shirt above? I didn’t at first. Then I went in to take some close-up photos and noticed that I sewed one of the shoulders together backwards (they should both look like the left envelope neckline, above the “H” in Harlem). And why would I share this mistake? Because I’m learning not to beat myself up for doing things like this. I have this tendency to be a bit of a perfectionist, and I’m working on letting it go. For my sake and my daughter’s, because she kind of leans that way as well.  But a few weeks ago, months after I started working on letting go of perfectionism, a wonderful thing happened… she was drawing and did something “wrong”. And where she would normally melt down and cry, she just smiled and said, “It’s ok! Do you know why? Because I’m human and I make mistakes!”. She said this with a huge smile and I felt like a pretty awesome mom. I need those moments.

So today, when I discovered that one of my favorite new shirts for my shop was ruined, and I started thinking unkind thoughts about myself (stupid, how much time did I waste, etc), I just stopped. I’m only human and I make mistakes too. And it’s ok. Of course I can’t sell it – I do expect my shirts to be pretty near perfect for that. But it’s also not such a big deal. And the way I’m treat myself is the way my kids will learn to treat themselves. I have nothing to gain by punishing myself – mistakes are part of the process. I learn. I grow. I improve. I laugh at myself when I need to, then try to find a friend with a two year old kid and a sense of humor to give this to.

 

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Ok… I’ve learned that planning a monthly budget is really great, but not enough to keep me within our proposed budget of $250 a month for food/groceries/eating out. I still believe it’s possible, and we started off on the right track in March, but we haven’t hit our goal yet.

So here’s what we’re doing for April:

1. Monthly Menu. Yes, I’m doing that again, but building in my doubled-freezer-friendly meals, more ingredients for throw-it-together-at-the-last-minute meals, and making it more weather-friendly (no heavy soups and or many meals that require an oven).

2. CASH.  Starting this week, we’re pulling out $250 cash, putting it in an envelope labeled “Food” and that’s what we use to buy groceries. My hope is that this will make the budget feel more real and less like a nice little goal to aim for. If we get to April 20th and we only have $25 left, I better quit eyeing those $1 avocados or $3 boxes of cereal and save money for the necessities (milk, bread, peanut butter, bananas, etc).

3. Garden. I meant to write a really cool post about starting our garden veggies from seed this year. We ordered about 16 varieties of seeds (tomatoes, cucumbers, peppers, basil, carrots, etc) and started them in little seed-starting trays. But we did too little too late, and the plants weren’t big enough when it was time to put them outside. The cut worms or some kind of critters ate almost everything. BUT, today I planted FIFTEEN beautiful tomato plants, a wonderful gift from my parents from the Arnosky Family Farm in Blanco, Texas. Those, plus some lovely pepper plants and some of our direct-sow seeds will provide us with loads of fresh vegetables and herbs all summer.

4. Canning. I’m going to learn how to can tomatoes this summer! It always seems that tomatoes come in all at once. Bushels of them – more than we can eat and give away. This year I plan to save as many as possible to last us through the cooler months.

Hugh eating a toasted marshmallow and a hot dog at the same time. With glee.

5. Remember that I’m feeding my family (see above), and it doesn’t have to be too fancy or complicated. Getting my kids to eat enough veggies is a goal. So is making food that’s delicious. But we’re not talking gourmet meals here. Just fresh, healthy, fun stuff. Updated comfort food. Because anyone who will stuff a hot dog and a marshmallow into his mouth AT THE SAME TIME can’t be that picky.

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2012 Challenge: A Monthly Shopping List

by Nikki on April 3, 2012

This was a big leap for me. Just having a weekly shopping list was a big step for me – actually planning out every meal for the week and doing the shopping all at once was a huge change. Before I just kept staples around the house (spaghetti, taco supplies, eggs, etc) and wrote down grocery lists of staples plus ingredients I might need for one or two actual recipes. But a year or two ago (time got fuzzy for me after my kids were born) I started sitting down – usually on Sunday – and writing out a meal plan and grocery list for the week.

But the first Sunday of March I tried something new: I made a menu plan and grocery list for the whole month. It took a while. I pulled out my big recipe binder and all my issues of Everyday Food (I love that magazine!) and started trying to come up with something good for every single day of February. I had to remember to account for days we didn’t need to cook (Brian’s parents’ anniversary was catered) or days when I just wouldn’t (Rosemary’s birthday party – I needed to plan ahead and have leftovers for that night). I took into account that my mom would be visiting (yay!) and thought about what she likes to eat. It took me a couple of hours to put it all together, and make separate shopping lists for Costco and the grocery store.

Spending so much (around $220) on the first of the month would normally freak me out a little. But because I knew that we would have about 95% of the ingredients we needed for the month (and beyond), I felt pretty good about it.

Blowing our monthly budget at Chuy's, as we drive down to Austin.

** I actually wrote this post early in March, and saved it as a draft. I just now got around to re-reading, editing and posting  it, and I wanted to include a few things I’ve learned in the last month.

1. I just do not cook every day. Not realistic.

2. I’m much happier if I plan several meals that are doubled, and then save the extra serving in the freezer (like bean stew).  Then on nights when I’m busy working on my shop, or I’m just plain tired, I don’t have to worry about cooking (or feel tempted to eat out).

3. I kind of cheated and used the same menu for April, thinking that no one would be tired of eating the same stuff. But then the weather went from cool to hot, and a lot of my dinners that were awesome in early March (potato soup!) are feeling too heavy and hot for the warmer weather.

4. We pretty much stuck to our budget and were feeling pretty good about ourselves until mid-month, when we traveled to Austin. Then another trip to Austin (unexpected) a couple of weeks later, and we’ve really backslid for the month.

5. If you’d like to try making a monthly menu, here’s a really cute template to pretty it up.

6. More soon on how we plan to fix these issues in April…

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Upcycled: Old T-shirt to Boy’s Underwear

by Nikki on March 28, 2012

My Dad is a mechanic. He’s awesome and can fix anything. Seriously. My car has over 140 thousand miles on it, and mostly that’s due to his maintenance. He’s just got a knack for just jumping in and figuring it out. He’s brilliant at coming up with unusual solutions. I hope I’ve inherited a little of that. I’m definitely not afraid to try something new, though I think I tend to take things a little more slowly.

What does this have to do with underwear, you might be wondering. Not much actually, but because my dad is a mechanic, he deals with the Snap-On parts company a lot. And he has cool Snap-On t-shirts. I had actually turned this one into a shirt for me first.

the Flashdance shirt being cut up

But this was one of my first upcycled t-shirt projects and it came out a little weird. As in the kind of Flashdance off the shoulder number that I don’t really have occasion to wear. So I didn’t mind cutting it up to make some undies for Hugh. Last summer I posted about some undies I made for the kids, and the one I made for Hugh had adorable polka dots and little zoo animals.  He hated them. The adorable undies sit unworn in his drawer, because they have to compete with underwear with Cars and The Incredibles and Toy Story. So I decided to make him something cooler and less baby-ish. Perhaps I went a little bit over the top.

pattern drawn out on t-shirt

I have to give credit where credit is due:  this awesome underwear pattern comes from That Darn Kat’s Etsy shop. Her instructions are wonderful and it was worth every penny to buy the pattern (for only $9.95). I even learned a new technique for sewing rib knit on the waistband and legs. I’ve made these with and without a serger, and they come out great either way. (She has detailed instructions for each method.)

badass

The pattern has instructions and patterns for boys and girls, sizes from 2T to 8. The boy’s pattern has only 6 pieces, including the trim.

rad

From start to finish, including cutting out the pattern, ironing a bit, and sewing these together takes about an hour. And like anything, it goes faster after the first time. This would be a great project for a favorite t-shirt (of your’s or their’s) that is outgrown or stained in an inconspicuous spot. I’ve found that it’s easy to find pretty new knit fabrics for the girl’s undies, but much harder for find anything for the boy. And now that I’ve tried making his from upcycled T’s, I’m going to do the same with her, so I’ve been stashing away cute outgrown shirts. (This includes pretty much anything that’s long-sleeve, regardless of whether or not it fits, because this girl just refuses to wear winter clothes.)

the back

the front!

Oh, and by the way, he LOVES these. Super cute.

 

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Upcycled: Maternity Shirt to Girl’s Dress

by Nikki on March 26, 2012

Perhaps this isn’t really a maternity shirt. I’ve seen stylish, slender young women wearing them and looking great. But I always look pregnant in shirts like this, and I can’t be the only one, because I see them at the thrift store all the time. I picked this one up for about $2.

orange dress

very pretty (and sadly unflattering) small women's top

I fell in love with the pattern and colors, and I even tried it on. But no… definitely looked pregnant. I had Rosemary try it on, just to see how it fit.

As you can see, it’s a little bit big. She’s using the halter top tie to hold it up behind her neck (and hamming it up a little too). I’m going to walk you through how we turned this into a dress for her, in just about 15 minutes. I used my serger to finish the seams, but in just a few more minutes, you could finish it with a regular machine’s zig-zag stitch.

First I had her put the dress on inside out, so I could pin the sides of the gathered top for a better fit.

pinning sides to take in around torso

Here the dress is inside out, and I'm pinning down each side to show where to sew.

Once the dress is on inside out, pin down the sides carefully, to indicate where your line of stitches will go. Do this on each side, pulling the fabric taut just a little. While I have her trying it on, I’m going to also see where I want the new straps to go (she doesn’t like halter tops, so I’m just going to make normal, over the shoulder straps using the halter strings).

Small blue marks indicating where I want the straps to attach in the back.

Now I'm stitching down the side of the dress where my pins are.

It’s hard to see in the above photo, because the dress and thread are orange. But I’m stitching down the side of the dress where I’ve pinned, being sure to carefully remove the pins as I go. (Because my sewing machine spent the weekend in the shop due to me running over a pin with my needle and it breaking and falling into the bottom of the machine. Whoops.) I repeated this on the other side, and then serged off the seams (below). If you don’t have a serger, it’s really ok! Just clip about 1/4 inch to the outside of your new stitch, and then cover the raw seam with a zig-zag stitch to reinforce it.

serging over seam

Serging over the line of stitches I just added. The machine is cutting away the extra fabric as it goes.

The photo below shows what the dress looks like (still inside out) with the sides stitched and serged.

Next we’ll attach the straps to the back of the dress with a small zig-zag stich.

Next I had her try the dress on again to fit the straps. She was getting tired of trying it on, but I promised that the next time she put it on, it would be finished.

Once the dress was on, and situated where we wanted it to sit on her body (making sure the front was high enough and the front and back were pretty much even), I pulled the strap across her shoulder to the back of the dress. I marked the spot to sew it on with two parallel lines, and the strap with an X. I  held the strap in place and had her put her arms down and test it out, to make sure it wasn’t too loose or too tight. We did the same with the other side, then stitched the straps down with the same zig-zag stitch as above.

Repeat on both sides, and then trim the excess strap.

Then you end up with something like this!

I think she likes it.

striking a pose

This was a really fun, easy project. If I weren’t taking pictures, it would have taken about 15 minutes. If you have any questions about my instructions, please just let me know in comments and I’ll do my best to help.

 

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As part of our challenge to spend less than $250 a month on food, I’ve been incorporating a lot of beans. LOTS. One of our new favorite dishes is sort of a mashup of three or four different recipes I’ve found for black bean stew.

By the way, I highly recommend Martha Stewart’s magazine, Everyday Food – it’s only about $10 for a yearly subscription and it’s worth every penny. I have enjoyed every single recipe I’ve tried from this magazine and I find them to be much more accessible than anything in her Living magazine, which I love for decorating, but I find it a little too “New England” for gardening and recipes. (Gardening in the south is just a different beast, where you’re more worried about plants burning than freezing, but I digress.)

Beans.  Martha/Everyday Food have some great recipes for black bean stews, but I wanted to use my crock pot. It’s my favorite way to cook beans, since I don’t have to worry about burning anything. This version makes a big pot of beans – enough for stew one night, leftovers the next day, and enough leftovers to make four black bean burgers for dinner another night. Essentially three meals from ingredients totalling less than $7. See? These vegetarians are really on the right track…

black bean soup with brown rice

Nikki’s Latin-ish Black Bean Stew

1 yellow onion, diced

1 lb bag dry black beans, soaked

1-2 bell peppers, thinly sliced (I prefer red, yellow or orange vs. green, but any will work)

4 garlic cloves, minced

2 teaspoons ground cumin

1 tablespoon butter (or olive oil if you want to make it vegan)

1 bag frozen corn (in a pinch you can use a bag of frozen mixed veggies – that’s what we had this time – the kind with peas, carrots, green beans and corn)

1 cans Ro-Tel

5-6 cups water

optional:  grated cheese, fresh cilantro, greek yogurt or sour cream, hot sauce and diced avocado

optional: cooked brown rice

Sort and rinse the black beans and soak if you have time.

Warm butter/olive oil in a medium-large non-stick pan over medium heat, and add your diced onion. Cook for about 3 minutes, then add the bell pepper. Season with salt and pepper and cook until the onion is translucent and golden. Put this in your crock pot, then add your sorted beans and all the other ingredients. If you’ve soaked the beans before, use about 5 cups of water. If they were added to the crock pot dry, use about 6 cups of water (they’ll soak more up). Set the crock pot to low overnight or about 6-8 hours. It’s fine if it goes longer, since you don’t really have to worry about overcooking them in this recipe. When they beans are done, taste them and add some salt and pepper as needed. Using a slotted spoon, remove about 4 cups of beans and set them aside in a colander sitting on top of a bowl to cool and drain (we’ll save these for our black bean burgers).

For the remaining beans, use a potato masher to mash to your liking. I prefer a really mashed black bean stew – it’s kind of creamy and the bean broth really thickens up. But if you prefer more whole beans, then go light on the mashing.

Serve this over cooked brown rice and top with any of the following: grated cheese, fresh cilantro, greek yogurt or sour cream, hot sauce and diced avocado.  This usually makes enough for large servings (or seconds) for 4 adults, or enough for two with leftovers the next day.

Refrigerate your reserved beans for dinner the next night:

Black Bean Burgers with pickled onions from issue #90 of Everyday Food, March 2012. Sadly, I don’t have a photo of these. We at them too fast. These are a bit more crumbly than the premade black bean burgers I’ve had in the past, but they taste great.

extra virgin olive oil

1 small red onion

1 teaspoon sugar

2 tablespoons red wine vinegar

Salt and pepper to taste

Reserved black beans from recipe above (divided, see below)

1/4 cup fresh cilantro

3/4 cup dried breadcrumbs (we used Panko, but any kind will work)

1 large egg, lightly beaten

In a medium nonstick skillet, heat 1 teaspoon olive oil over medium heat. Add one small red onion, thinly sliced and cook about one minute. Add 1 teaspoon sugar and cook until dissolved. Add 2 tablespoons red wine vinegar and season with salt and pepper. Transfer to a bowl and wipe out skillet. (*Do yourself a favor and make extra onions – they’re great on sandwiches and salads too).

In a large bowl, mash 2 1/2 cups of your reserved bean mixture. Stir in fresh cilantro, bread crumbs, egg and the remaining 1 1/2 cups beans (un-mashed). Season with about 1/2 teaspoon salt and 1/4 teaspoon pepper and form mixture into four patties. Heat 1 tablespoon of oil in your skillet over medium-high. Cook two patties until crisp on the outside and heated through – about 7 minutes, flipping once. Repeat with more oil and remaining patties.

The original recipe calls for mayonaise, but we didn’t have any, so we made up our own dressing: about 3 tablespoons plain greek yogurt mixed with about two teaspoons Cholulah or Tapatio (or other hot sauce). Top with a little cheese, avocado and picked onion and you’re set.

Also, we didn’t have buns. But, we had been saving the “butt ends” of our bread loaves in the fridge to make croutons. We just toasted them and pretended they were buns.

 

Sea Change

by Nikki on March 8, 2012

If you’ve never read all the way back through my blog, you’re missing one really raw and vulnerable post. I wrote it when my oldest was almost 3 and my youngest was a few months shy of a year old. What I don’t come right out in say in that rather depressing post is that we were going through a very hard time when I wrote it – beyond a typical rough day with an infant and toddler. My husband was about to leave a job where he was completely miserable; one where he worked for commission only, which for us had meant no income for a few months. I was really struggling. I felt like my life was completely out of my control in almost every way, from my ability to parent my kids effectively, to my influence on our family’s income (going from being the one time breadwinner of our family, now a stay-at-home parent) to whether or not we would stay in the house we had put so much love and work into over the last several years.

This was taken around the same time that I wrote that original blog post (by our super talented friend, Jenna Brady Vincent).

So why am I revisiting that dark time? To draw a contrast with today.

From the outside, our situation today might seem similar in some ways. Brian has quit his job. A job that was a wonderful opportunity for us, and allowed us to move to Denton, which we’ve fallen in love with. But a job that had started to pale in comparison with the life he wanted. The life WE wanted. We want a life of meaningful work and freedom. We want to put our creative talents to use. We want to dream bigger. We’re beginning to see the possibility of a livelihood that is not dependent on someone else’s dreams and plans, or someone else’s offer of employment. We don’t have all the answers yet, but we decided to take a leap. Brian quit, with my blessing.

So what changed since that time, just a little over two years ago, when I wrote that first sad story? Why am I not terrified? There’s not just one simple answer, but a list of cumulative changes. One big one is just surviving that first change. We ended up selling that house I loved so much (and yes, there was some grief there). We saw a therapist. We took a wonderful job offer up in North Texas and left our parents behind in Central Texas, about 5 hours away. We left our friends, bought a new house, made some money, paid off our debt and car, found a new home, found a new preschool, took dozens of leaps of faith. We THRIVED. I learned that we’re stronger than I thought. Our marriage is strong. I am strong. Our kids are resilient.

In the last year, I took a chance and took an online class with a life coach I had long admired (I’ll post more about her soon), and that decision changed me deeply. I got unstuck. Just a little at first, and then I started to make bigger changes and take bigger risks. I started sewing more. I chose a new name, took a deep breath, and re-started my Etsy shop. By chance, I met a new friend who helped me come up with a new logo and helped put together this website. I had a booth at the Denton Community Market. And I made a bunch of smaller changes too (exercising, creating a vision board, telling my facebook friends about my business, repainting my patio, cleaning out my garage, writing almost every day, starting a new garden, chosing a word of the year).

So what have I learned?

I’ve learned that I don’t just learn something once and then have it figured out. I keep learning and relearning and sometimes it takes me ages to integrate some new-to-me Truth. I’m learning that perfectionism is an affliction, and not something to be proud of. I’m learning that I’m good enough just as I am. I’m learning to say what I think before it starts to eat me from the inside. I’m learning that it’s not my job to keep the peace in my family. It’s my job to love everyone and speak my mind. I’m learning to start uncovering what I love again. I’m learning to allow myself to have bigger dreams (like owning my own fabric or upholstery shop). I’m learning that my thoughts are powerful and create my reality, but that it’s not helpful to beat myself up when I’m having a bad day and having crappy thoughts.

Am I worried about taking this leap and leaving behind the world of regular paychecks?

I wish I could say that my faith is so deep and profound that I have no doubts. But sometimes I do.  But the Truthis, we want to work for ourselves. We want to put our own ideas to work every day, and reap the rewards of our own diligence. And this is a big step toward doing that, no matter what happens next. We’re learning to believe that the net will appear. We’re learning to see that there is a world of love and support out there for us, and that for every snarky comment in my head saying “who do you think you are?!”, there are a hundred other, louder voices saying “YES!” Step out. Try something bold. Have an adventure.

 

2012 Challenge: What we’ve gained

by Nikki on February 29, 2012

Sometimes I worry that my posts about our challenge to spend $250 a month on food focus too much on what we’re giving up. We don’t really eat out, or get take-out, or buy wine or gourmet coffee or frozen pizza. I miss that stuff sometimes (but not as much as I expected). We’ve gained just as much, though some of it is tangible and some isn’t.

We actually washed these before the kids ate them.

We’ve gained better health. This is hard to quantify, but we just feel better. We haven’t been sick, even though our kids have. We have more energy, even during times like a few weeks ago, where our son was down with an ear infection and we were both up all hours of the night rocking and comforting him.

We’re losing weight. We don’t have a scale in the house, but my regular jeans are now loose and my skinny jeans now fit.

We eat awesome desserts. I make a delicious berry coffeecake type dessert, inspired by a recipe in one of my Everyday Food magazines. It rocks. (and we’re losing weight in spite of eating desserts 3-4 times a week).

I’m feeling more confident as a cook, menu planner and shopper. I know how much things cost and I know when I find a good deal. I don’t feel guilty spending money on groceries because I know what’s reasonable for our family (which, by the way, is probably closer to $300 than $250).

And we know how much we’re spending on food now. We feel more in control of our budget and less like money just goes out the window without knowing how or where.

This has been a great experience for me, and for my family. A few minutes of preparation and planning can save us money and buy us new experiences and better health. For example, today we scrapped plans to go to Chick-fil-A, and instead packed a lunch and took the kids to the playground. My son and I found a crawfish in the creek and I watched him climb up a steep embankment all by himself. My daughter and my husband made new friends. I ran into some mom friends and felt that sense of connection I’ve been missing. And we didn’t spend a beautiful spring-like day indoors eating fast food.

So here’s to 10 more months of our challenge! Thanks for sharing it with me.

2012 Challenge: Sweet Potato Tacos

by Nikki on February 21, 2012

This was one of our favorite recipes long before we decided to go more plant based and keep to a tight budget. But it works nicely with the new plan as well. The original recipe was from one of Central Market’s Foodie magazines. I’m not sure if they still put these out, but in 2002 they did so monthly and since my husband I both used to work there, we always picked them up. The original recipe called for butternut squash, but since it’s not always easy to find and it’s a huge pain to peel (in my opinion), I almost always use sweet potatoes. (a side note here: I have a very simple camera and I’ll admit that my food photos are kind of myeh. I don’t style these or anything – I just snap a few photos while I’m cooking and right before we sit down for dinner. This will no doubt improve with time and practice, but in the meantime, please forgive the poor picture quality – the food tastes better than it looks – I promise!)

Sweet Potato and Black Bean Tacos

1-2 sweet potatoes or 1 butternut squash

2 Tablespoons grapeseed oil or corn oil

1/2 teaspoon cinnamon

1/2 teaspoon cumin

Topatillo, Cholula or Tabasco sauce to taste. (we are big on hot sauce in this house)

Salt and Pepper to taste.

2 teaspoons honey

1 (14 oz) can refried black beans (or use my recipe to make homemade refried beans)

8 taco shells or 8 soft corn tortillas

toppings I like:  chopped green onions, cilantro, goat cheese or feta, greek yogurt/sour cream and cilantro (optional)

If you’re using butternut squash, then peel it and remove the seeds. If you’re using sweet potatoes, scrub them well (peeling is optional). Either way, cut your sweet potatoes or squash into 1/2 inch pieces. Heat oil in a large nonstick skillet until the oil is smoking a little. Carefully add your squash or sweet potatoes and stir to coat with the oil. Sprinkle with cinnamon, cumin, hot sauce, salt and pepper. Drizzle with honey. Saute until brown and tender, stirring frequently. (This always takes longer than I expect, and every time I tell myself that I’ll boil or bake the sweet potatoes first to give them a head start. I never have the patience for this.)

Heat your beans in a microwave safe bowl until warm. Then spoon beans and squash into taco shells, topping with whatever floats your boat (see my suggestions above).

This is one of our favorite inexpensive recipes. This is plenty to feed four people 2-3 tacos each.

2012 Challenge: Best Waffles Ever

by Nikki on February 16, 2012

For the last few years one of our freezer staples has been frozen waffles. We’ve gone from fancy Kashi Blueberry waffles to cheap store brand waffles, but it’s been an easy breakfast that the kids like. (We usually top them with peanut butter and honey.) But as we’ve been reexamining our expenses, I’ve looked twice at almost every prepared/processed/convenience food we buy. We own a waffle iron and even use it occasionally, on weekends or special occasions. So, obviously, store bought waffles were on the chopping block, budget-wise.

This is what the waffle batter looks like after sitting out overnight... all bubbly from the yeast.

And after trying the following recipe, I don’t think we’ll ever go back to frozen waffles. We usually make a batch of these once or twice a week and they’re our go to breakfast nearly every morning for the kids – Brian and I are usually just sticking with our green smoothies. I can never resist eating one (or five) on the morning I make them though. These are better than any waffles I’ve ever had in a restaurant. Try them and you’ll see. They are just as simple to make as standard waffles – you just have to plan ahead and mix up most of the ingredients the night before.

With chocolate chips, per Rosemary's request.

Mark Bittman’s Overnight Waffles from the book that you should own: How to Cook Everything

1/2 teaspoon instant yeast (I have finally started buying yeast in bulk, but if you have those little envelopes of yeast, just open one carefully, measure out 1/2 teaspoon, then put the whole thing in a sandwich bag for another recipe. Like more waffles.)

2 cups all-purpose flour (sometimes I use 1 cup all-purpose and 1 cup whole wheat)

1 Tablespoon sugar

1/2 teaspoon salt

2 cups milk

8 Tablespoon (1 stick) butter, melted and cooled

1/2 teaspoon vanilla extract

2 eggs

Mix together all the dry ingredients, then stir in the milk, then butter and vanilla. Cover the bowl with plastic wrap and leave out on the counter overnight.

The next morning, brush the waffle iron with a neutral oil, and preheat it (I always just spray it with cooking spray). While the iron is heating up, separate the eggs. Add the yolks to the batter and stir to combine. Beat the whites in a separate bowl until soft peaks form, then gently fold them into the batter (this egg-separating step was new to me, but please don’t skip it – it makes a huge difference!)

Spoon a ladleful or so of batter onto the waffle iron and bake until the waffle is done. We have one of those waffle irons that beeps when it’s finished, but if you have an older model that doesn’t do that, it will probably take about 3-5 minutes.

*If you’re like us, and the “waffle-tone” causes your dog intense anxiety, please put him or her in the room furthest from the kitchen and shut the door before preheating the iron.

Bonus recipe: Fruit Compote

Take some fresh or frozen berries (we used mixed berries, but anything is fine) out and add about half a cup of them to a small sauce pan. Add the zest and juice of one lemon and about a teaspoon of sugar. Simmer until the fruit is soft and saucy and very warm (this won’t take long). Serve over your waffles and vow never to use that cheap syrup again. Except for your kids who love the cheap syrup and think the fruit is weird.